why I don't want to live in Westchester

From an article (interesting in its own right) about stay-at-home dads, titled "Housewives, try this for desperation":

Many stay-at-home fathers find that they are fish out of water, too.

"Conversations with men here [in Purchase, NY] revolve around banking, and the kinds of cars you drive, and the country club," Mr. Purinton said. "That gives me the heebie-jeebies. I'm socially ill at ease. I'd rather talk to the mothers about raising children."